Sexual Health Resources for Women of South Asian Heritage

Month: May 2013

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As a society we love to celebrate how great women are and how much we love them- International Women’s Day, Mother’s Day, even Valentine’s Day is really about the gifts men should buy women. But where are we on issues that really count? Violence, self-esteem, […]

After The Fact

After The Fact

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Brown & Gay

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Through high school and early university I had no gay peers, or friends, but just the exaggerated television stereotypes of gay people, all of whom were white. University didn’t turn out to be radically different, brief exposures to queer culture still left a void. Even as I began to work in the LGBT service sector, the brown queer presence was seriously lacking.

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Little did I know that I’d end up working as an educator at ASAAP a few short years later. My work now involves working with Gay, Bisexual and Trans men to break down barriers to accessing healthcare and safer-sex information. Most importantly, I work to create a space where South Asian men feel comfortable being themselves with no shame about who they are.

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For the most part South Asians are not the most comfortable talking about sex and sexuality. Is it because we aren’t having any? Funny, I didn’t think the Kama Sutra was for coffee table reading, nor did I think that population of India surpassed a billion through abstinence. Yet we shy away from these discussions, push them into a category of shame and turn a blind eye.

 

 

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Originally featured in South Asian Generation Next- February 2012